Someone's definition of what constitutes cheating is in direct proportion to how much they themselves want to cheat. That's why I have got to think about relationships. There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone worth to love, well, that is just fabulous.